A single mother spoke about her relationship preference in a video that has gone viral. She said she didn’t want to date a man with kids because she already had five kids.
In the viral video shared by @whalebrilo, the lady also said she was too young to be a mother of more than five children.
Her words:
“I cannot date a guy that already has kids because I have five kids already. So imagine if you’re coming with your kids into the relationship. I have five and you have two, now I have to be seven kids. There’s no way. I cannot be a mother of seven kids. I’m very young to be a mother of seven kids. So I’m better off with my five kids.”
Single mother of 5 seeks “present father”
The woman also stated that any man who wanted to date her would just be ready to be a stepdad to her kids.
She said:
“Whenever a guy comes to date me, he just has to have no kids and also be ready to be a step dad to my kids, as a present father.
“If you wanna date me, you gonna date me with my kids and you have – it’s a must- you have to take care of us financially. You have to provide for all of my kids and myself. I am not working. We come as a bargain, so you cannot take one and leave the rest.”
Watch the video below:
Reactions as single mother shares relationship rules
@anonymous said:
“There are men who think like this too but want to judge her. It’s her preference too.”
@Isaac A Machava said:
“Imagine being stepfather of 5 kids. There no way I can do that madness.”
@kefas Dube said:
“5 kids already is more than a red flag but a red carpet.”
@stufuzaesihle said:
“I see no problem here, she has her preferences. Same as a guy who doesn’t want a women without kids whereas he has kids. There are men who think this exact way… Baningi futhi.”
@Pritty Ntsoana said:
“Am I toxic that I understand her reasons.”
@BLAQ PRINCESS said:
“pure selfishness. true meaning of weapon formed against whom will date her.”
@Nonhlanhla Mbatha said:
“We listen we don’t judge.”
